Rules control all social activities. If you do not follow the rules, then there are consequences. There is no place to hide.

My first year in college was a time of discovery, fun, and disaster. Back in the sixties, the campus at a Public Ivy university was an exciting place to be — plenty of social activities. Beautiful girls, parties with new friends, concerts, and learning. Notice that place learning at the end. When you do that, you pay the price.

I had arrived from Cuba in 1962, two years before my enrollment at the University of Illinois. I had a scholarship and a part-time job at the Main Library. Everything was new and exhilarating. It was too much, only that I thought I could handle it. No, I could not.

Dear reader, have you ever been in a similar situation? You had everything but needed to learn how to manage it and failed. Then again, if you fail, then what?

That is precisely what happened to me. I lost my scholarship; I flunked out of the university. What to do? Give up?

No, I was not going to do that.

I went to see one of my professors, Mary A. Hussey. She was a great lady and loved Siamese cats. She told me: “When in the realm of Rules, consider that All rules have exceptions. Your job is to be part of the exception.” “You were at the top of the hill; now you must climb again, It will not be easy. “

I made myself part of the exception. They place me on Academic Probation. Four years later, I graduated.

Remember, dear reader; your job is to be part of the exception.

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